Physical Contact
I like to inform parents in advance of the nature and type of physical contact that their child will experience whilst in my care. No physical punishment is given to any child whilst with me as I think that discipline should be taught through reason and affection. The three main types of contact are:
Nurturing: which includes hugs, non-intimate kisses ie: on the head or cheek, handholding, gentle tickling and carry cuddling. This type of contact is never given unless the child feels comfortable or they express it.
Safety and Guidance: which includes restraining children from harmful situations, separating children who are in physical conflict, directing children by gently leading or guiding them and administering first aid to injuries.
Hygiene: which includes washing of hands and faces, assisting with bathroom duties (according to the age and ability of the child concerned), nappy changing, examining rashes and unusual marks, nose blowing and any necessary clothing changes.
It's important to remember that it's quite normal and healthy for children to express love and contentment with physical gestures.
